I asked my adult children to claim anything they wanted from my storage areas by August 31st or it goes to charity. This is what happen

August 31st was practical. It was enough time to make a plan, but not so much time that the plan could dissolve into family folklore.

How I broke the news to my kids

I sent a group text first, because if I called each one separately, I knew I’d get three different versions of the conversation. My exact message was: “I’m clearing all storage areas. If there is anything you want, please claim it by August 31. After that, I’m donating, recycling, or tossing items. I’m happy to send photos

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